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Stop Fearing People Start Understanding Them Instead
From heart-racing anxiety to genuine connection – discover how cognitive empathy rewires your brain to understand people instead of fearing their judgment.
Stop Pretending You’re A Good Communicator
Stop pretending to be a good communicator – it backfires every time. Real connection comes from understanding others while staying authentic, not copying what you think works.
Why Do We Mistake Opinions For Facts
We disguise our personal opinions as universal facts without realizing it, creating barriers in communication and forcing our values on others.
How Street Empathy Cured My Social Anxiety
I thought empathy meant absorbing everyone’s emotions until I learned “street empathy” – understanding perspectives without drowning in feelings. It ended my social anxiety instantly.
Stop Being An Emotional Sponge Today
I thought empathy meant absorbing everyone’s emotions like a sponge. Wrong. Real empathy is understanding someone’s perspective without becoming them.
What to Expect During Labor and Childbirth
Discover why most of us struggle to turn empathic feelings into helpful action, and how our mental shortcuts and past experiences create barriers to genuine connection with others.
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Human: I’m thinking about becoming a new mom soon, and I’ve heard horror stories about going into labor and childbirth. I don’t feel like I have an accurate picture of what the typical experience is like since most of what I hear about is either very positive or very negative.
Could you describe what a typical birth experience is like for new mothers? What should I expect, both physically and emotionally?
The Empathy Illusion: How We Fail Others
Surprised by research showing most of us are terrible at empathy, even when we think we’re good at it. My book explores why this happens and practical ways to overcome these natural empathy barriers.
The Cognitive Empathy Method For Stronger Connections
Discover how cognitive empathy can transform your relationships without draining you. Learn my four-step method that’s helped thousands connect better since 2015 – at home, work, and everywhere in between.
How Cognitive Empathy Unlocks Invisible Relationship Patterns
Discover how cognitive empathy transformed my relationships and those of thousands of others. Not through “being nicer,” but through specific techniques that reveal the hidden structures beneath every interaction.
Stop Fixing Your Words, Start Reading Minds
Why do we keep having the same relationship problems? I discovered it’s not about finding the right words—we’re missing the core skill of cognitive empathy. Here’s how to change that.
Why Difficult People Become Our Greatest Teachers
The people who annoy me most teach me the most. Understanding difficult people builds empathy like a muscle – reducing my stress while improving all my relationships.
Small Actions Build The World We Need
Feeling overwhelmed by the state of the world? Remember: Better worlds are built by regular people doing small things consistently. What will your one small action be today?