Stop Arguments from Spiraling with Three Simple Moves
You can ground chaotic arguments by ditching future-tripping, reframing judgment as unmet needs, and reflecting feelings back without agreeing or caving.
You can ground chaotic arguments by ditching future-tripping, reframing judgment as unmet needs, and reflecting feelings back without agreeing or caving.
Social anxiety is basically fear of judgment making you hide. Learn to spot the need underneath that fear, practice “street empathy” by getting curious about others, and watch the freakouts lose power.
Flip from “Am I good enough?” to “What’s interesting about you?” and watch social anxiety lose its grip. Street empathy = practical curiosity that gives your self-judging brain less CPU cycles.
When your brain rehearses disaster scripts at parties, try this: track what’s real, ditch the doom loops, ask curious questions. 20 years of face-plants distilled into a cheat code.
Team lead blames dev for being late; icy silence follows. Or try PEP: observe facts, guess feelings, name needs, make requests. Lizard brains chill, trust respawns.
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