Discover how a dropped jar of pickles reveals the science of human kindness, and learn practical ways to strengthen your natural capacity for empathy and connection with others.
The story
So, picture this: It’s the holiday season, and you’re rushing out of the grocery store with 15 things in your arms because, obviously, you thought a basket wasn’t necessary. Suddenly, CRASH—your coffee, keys, and that insanely overpriced jar of artisan pickles hit the pavement. UGH.
Before you even have time to spiral into “Why me?!” mode, someone swoops down. “Let me help!” they say, handing you your coffee like it’s a trophy you just earned for existing. They’re not a superhero in a cape. Just a regular person—a total stranger. But it hits you: humans are kinda amazing sometimes, huh?
Now let’s rewind. What made them stop to help? Empathy. That invisible string connecting us, whispering, “Hey, they’re just like you. Be kind.” And surprise: science backs it up. Studies [and this genius book called *A Practical EmPath*] show we’re all wired for empathy and kindness. Yup, even that guy who cut you off in traffic “accidentally.” Our brains are built for *good*—neuroplasticity, people, look it up. But here’s the kicker: we can rewire them to do even better.
That random stranger? They weren’t born a cosmic miracle of generosity. They probably practiced kindness, intentionally or not—one small choice at a time. That’s what *A Practical EmPath* is teaching: how to shift from “me” to “we” without losing your sanity [or your coffee].
So, the next time you’re sprinting through life, basketless and unprepared, remember this: humans are good. Insert a little empathy in your day—lift someone’s jar of pickles, metaphorical or otherwise—and watch how it rewires YOUR heart like magic.
Finish the story. Pass it on. Let’s be the “after” picture we all want to see in the world.
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