Empathizing With Critics Makes You Emotionally Bulletproof
Empathizing with critics isn’t weakness—it’s resistance training for your nervous system that builds real-time emotional control and upgrades how you handle conflict.
When to Debug Your Prompt vs Start Over
You’re already debugging prompts without realizing it. Here’s when to iterate vs. nuke the chat—and the deeper skill underneath both moves.
Stop Waiting for Permission to Build Your Life
Young professionals often wait for life to “start” after the next credential. Chapter 7 flips that: growth is self-directed, not assigned by institutions.
Your Brain’s Spam Filter Is Ruining Your Life
Your brain’s spam filter hides most of reality based on old beliefs and doom-scrolling. Chapter 6 shows how to reprogram it so you notice what actually matters to *you*.
One Hour Daily Rewires Your Entire Future
Stop waiting for passion or permission. Chapters 3–5 show how tiny daily actions between 4–5 p.m. rewire your future more than any mentor or motivation ever will.
Stop Managing Your Assumptions About Your Team
Leaders toggle between “nice” (get steamrolled) and “tough” (create resentment). The real gap? You’re managing your assumptions, not what’s actually in people’s heads.
Leaders Need Empathy Too: Meet Your AI Coach
CEOs and leaders often have no safe space to process feelings. So I built EmpathyBot—a free AI coach that listens without judgment and helps you hear your own wisdom.
Practice Hard Conversations Without the Risk or Judgment
Leaders face big decisions with zero safe space to admit fear. EmpathyBot.net offers free, private AI coaching to practice empathy, rehearse hard talks, and clarify next steps—no ads, no performance required.
Why Do Tech Meetups Feel So Awkward?
Tech meetups often feel like LinkedIn with snacks. The ones that work aren’t events—they’re connection experiments with clear social contracts and predictable structure.
How I Fixed My Dead Meetups With Time
Meetups failed until I stopped treating them like spreadsheets. Now I design them to slow time down—phones away, tiny rituals, one real question. People stay longer and feel it.
AI Killed Syntax, Made Design Thinking Mandatory
AI made syntax optional but design thinking mandatory. Non-developers can now ship working software—just not necessarily good software. The new skill isn’t coding faster, it’s thinking clearer.
AI Exposed the Real Value of Software Experience
AI didn’t replace software experience—it exposed what mattered all along. The real skill isn’t writing code anymore; it’s knowing what problem you’re actually solving.
Can AI Really Feel Your Feelings Better?
AI can detect emotions and outperform humans on EQ tests, but it’s pattern recognition, not actual feeling. The key: get precise about what emotional support you want.
Stop Being a Well-Paid Extra at Work
Tired of being a well-paid extra? Horvath’s first chapters explain why the standard path flattens you – and what individuation actually requires.
Five Career Moves Nobody Warns You About
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Your Success Story Might Be Someone Else’s Script
Successful businessman has everything, feels like total failure. Turns out legacy isn’t what happens after you die – it’s what you do today. That’ll mess with your head.
Your Daily Choices Matter More Than Your Eulogy
Legacy isn’t what people say at your funeral – it’s what you’re building through daily choices right now. This book tears apart everything you think matters.
AI Agents Work Best When Treated Like Humans
AI agent teams work better when you treat them like emotionally intelligent humans – understanding each agent’s strengths, managing their cognitive load, and letting them collaborate naturally.
Managing AI Agents Is Just Managing People
Managing people and orchestrating AI agents use the same core skills – just applied to code instead of conversations. Recognition becomes observation, pattern analysis becomes prediction, and conflict resolution becomes debugging.
Why Time Speeds Up And How Empathy Slows It
Studying empathy for twenty years taught me why time speeds up as we age – and how paying attention to other people’s micro-expressions can literally slow it back down.
Your Weirdness Is Your Competitive Advantage Actually
A book that reframes failure as growth invitations you can’t decline and argues your weirdness is actually your biggest asset – not the fluffy self-help you’d expect.
How Gratitude Rewires Your Brain For Kindness
Gratitude doesn’t just make you feel good – it rewires your brain to see people differently. Three practices turn appreciation into genuine empathy and kindness.
Thank You Notes Rewired My Brain Chemistry
Writing thank-you notes rewired my brain in an unexpected way – gratitude and empathy feed each other, creating an upward spiral that literally changes how we connect.
Why AI Projects Fail: Wrong Problem Size
Spent 30+ years coding, 8 with AI. The secret isn’t the tech – it’s breaking problems into chunks AI can actually handle. Most people fail because they dump entire projects on it.
How To Actually Listen In Relationships
Most relationship advice tells you to “listen better” but never explains how. Here’s what actually works – and why your current approach isn’t cutting it.
Why Empathy Actually Drives Better Business Results
Stopped reacting, started understanding – and watched miscommunications drop, anxiety dissolve, and people show up differently. Turns out empathy isn’t soft, it’s strategic.
Stop Drowning In Everyone Else’s Emotional Drama
You’re absorbing everyone’s emotions and burning out. There’s a type of empathy that lets you understand people without drowning in their feelings – it’s strategic compassion.
Your Brain’s Bad Wiring Ruins Good Relationships
Your relationships aren’t failing because you’re not trying hard enough – they’re struggling because you’re working with faulty wiring that makes you react before you understand.
I Tested Every Coding Assistant For 300 Years
I tested every coding assistant for 30 years. Most are just fancy autocomplete. Roo Code is the first that actually gets it – runs locally, open-source, and keeps you in flow.
AI Finally Cracks Developer Collaboration After 30 Years
After 30 years of coding, I found the first assistant that actually collaborates instead of just guessing. Roo Code runs specialized agents that handle different dev tasks.
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