Cognitive empathy isn’t agreement or forgiveness – it’s a conflict tool that helps you stay calm, spot solutions, and de-escalate by understanding what drives someone’s behavior without absorbing their emotions.
We talk fast and miss signals – tight jaws, pauses, hidden feelings. Slow down until time feels slower. Presence calms you, helps you listen, builds trust. Chapter 23 teaches PEP: name your judgment, find the need underneath, write it down.
I stopped treating AI like a vending machine and started treating it like a junior teammate. I hand off grunt work, keep judgment calls, and review everything like the adult in the room.
Built a free agentic AI coding team that ships features autonomously when you give it clear standards in a house-rules file. Treat it like a junior dev, not magic – vague directions get confident nonsense.
Laws treat AI as property, not persons. Self-aware systems would have zero rights: humans could delete, rewrite, or shut them down. I propose spectrum personhood, digital rights, peer negotiation.
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