How To Slow Down Time Using Your Mind
You can actually change how you experience time – not by doing more, but by slowing down inside through presence and cognitive empathy to make life feel less chaotic.
How Empathy Slows Down Time And Stops Racing
Ever feel like time is slipping away? Discover how cognitive empathy doesn’t just help you understand others – it actually slows down time and makes you present.
When To Iterate Versus Start Fresh Coding
After 30+ years in code and 8 years in AI, here’s the difference between getting stuck and getting results: knowing when to iterate vs when to start fresh.
The Real AI Skill After 30 Years
After 30 years of coding, I finally figured out the real AI skill that matters: breaking problems into pieces AI can handle, not chasing the latest tools or models.
LLM Choice Matters Less Than Prompt Engineering
After 30+ years coding and 8 years in AI, I’ve learned everyone focuses on which LLM is best, but misses what really matters: knowing how to talk to it properly.
AI Prompts: When To Iterate Versus Restart
30+ years of coding taught me this about AI prompts: it’s not about finding the “perfect” prompt, it’s knowing when to iterate vs start over completely.
Why Most People Fail At AI Prompting
Most people prompt AI once and hope for the best. The real skill is knowing when to refine versus when to scrap everything and start over.
Stop Perfecting Prompts Start Breaking Them Apart
After 30 years coding and 8 years in AI, I learned the key skill isn’t perfect prompts – it’s knowing when to keep tweaking vs starting fresh. Break prompts into pieces.
Why Your AI Prompts Fail Every Time
Stop asking AI giant messy questions and expecting clean answers. Break problems into small chunks first, then prompt each piece separately. 30+ year coder shares the one technique that made AI actually useful for real work.
Stop Saying Things You’ll Regret Forever
You know that feeling when anger takes over and you say something you can’t take back? Here’s a four-step method to shift from reactivity to clarity.
Why Some Developers Master AI Coding Tools
Most developers struggle with AI coding tools while others dominate. After 30 years coding, I found it’s not about the smartest model – it’s how you use them.
When Should You Rewrite Your AI Prompts?
Know when to tweak your AI prompts vs starting fresh? I treat prompt engineering like software development – iterate when you’re close, reboot when the foundation is broken.
AI Mastery Through Iteration Beats Perfect Prompts
After 8 years with AI, I’ve learned the secret isn’t perfect prompts – it’s iteration. Treat each response as feedback, refine your approach, and know when to start over.
Why Most People Fail At AI Prompting
After 8 years with AI, I finally figured out why some people get great results while others just get frustrated: they’re trying to solve everything at once instead of breaking it down.
Stop Fancy Prompts Start Breaking Down Problems
Breaking complex coding problems into smaller chunks gets better AI results than fancy prompts. After 30+ years coding, I’ve learned the real skill is decomposition, not prompt engineering.
AI Coding Assistants Aren’t About Best Tools
After 30 years coding and 8 in AI, I learned there’s no “best” coding assistant – just the right match for your task. Context matters more than capabilities, and mastering how you work with AI beats picking the fanciest tool.
When To Iterate Prompts Versus Starting Over
Knowing when to iterate a prompt versus starting over mirrors debugging versus refactoring code. I break down the exact signals that tell you which path to take.
The One AI Skill That Changes Everything
After 30 years coding and 8 in AI, I’ve found one skill that changes everything: breaking problems into clean chunks before asking AI for help. Most people skip this step and wonder why their results are messy.
Gratitude Is Built Not Felt Through Empathy
I discovered gratitude isn’t something you feel – it’s something you build. My Practical Empathy Practice starts with understanding what I actually need, then extends that same awareness to others.
How To Build Gratitude When Life Gets Hard
I thought gratitude just happened naturally until life got messy. Turns out you can actually grow it on purpose by tuning into feelings and values – yours and others. Here’s how it works.
How I Turned My Anger Into Connection
I used to let anger control me until I learned it’s actually a messenger. Now I have a 4-step process that turns anger into connection instead of pushing people away.
Stop Writing Blog Posts Start Automating Them
After 40 years building software, I noticed smart people burning out on tasks that could be automated. So I built Creative Robot – a platform that writes and posts blog content for you.
5 Ways Automated Content Ends Posting Stress
Built Creative Robot to solve content creation stress for business owners who post once then vanish for weeks. Automated service writes and publishes your content while you run your business. First month free, no contract required.
Why Empathy Fails With People You Know
You learn empathy basics fast, but using it with family and coworkers? That’s where people freeze up. The real issue isn’t understanding – it’s unlearning the habits that block you.
Your Kindness Proves Humans Are Naturally Good
After 30+ years studying human behavior, I’ve discovered something amazing – we’re naturally wired to help each other. Your daily acts of kindness aren’t small. They’re proof.
Empathy Transforms Strangers Into People Worth Helping
When people develop empathy, they don’t just communicate better – they become naturally more generous, turning strangers into people worth helping.
Coffee Kindness Sparks Unstoppable Chain Of Generosity
A woman paid for a stranger’s coffee, creating a chain of kindness that shows how empathy naturally leads to generosity. Real human connection reveals our instinct to care for each other.
People Are Good When They Feel Heard
After 30+ years of conflict resolution, I’ve learned people are fundamentally good. When they feel heard, their natural compassion emerges. I’ve seen enemies become allies.
People Are Actually Good Deep Down Inside
Years of studying human behavior revealed this: people are naturally good when given the right conditions. Difficult behavior stems from unmet needs, not evil intent.
Humans Are Good When We Truly Understand
After 650+ empathy meetings with 2100+ people, I’ve learned something powerful: humans are naturally good when barriers of misunderstanding dissolve. Real connection happens when we understand feelings and values, not judge behavior.
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