How To Actually Listen In Relationships
Most relationship advice tells you to “listen better” but never explains how. Here’s what actually works – and why your current approach isn’t cutting it.
Why Empathy Actually Drives Better Business Results
Stopped reacting, started understanding – and watched miscommunications drop, anxiety dissolve, and people show up differently. Turns out empathy isn’t soft, it’s strategic.
Stop Drowning In Everyone Else’s Emotional Drama
You’re absorbing everyone’s emotions and burning out. There’s a type of empathy that lets you understand people without drowning in their feelings – it’s strategic compassion.
Your Brain’s Bad Wiring Ruins Good Relationships
Your relationships aren’t failing because you’re not trying hard enough – they’re struggling because you’re working with faulty wiring that makes you react before you understand.
I Tested Every Coding Assistant For 300 Years
I tested every coding assistant for 30 years. Most are just fancy autocomplete. Roo Code is the first that actually gets it – runs locally, open-source, and keeps you in flow.
AI Finally Cracks Developer Collaboration After 30 Years
After 30 years of coding, I found the first assistant that actually collaborates instead of just guessing. Roo Code runs specialized agents that handle different dev tasks.
After 30 Years I Found My AI Teammate
After 30 years of coding, I found the first AI assistant that actually feels like a teammate. Roo Code thinks in specs first, uses different models for different tasks, runs locally for privacy, and works autonomously like a junior dev who never gets tired.
AI Finally Replaced My 30-Year Coding Workflow
After 30 years coding, I found an AI that actually understands my entire project, handles spec-to-deployment, runs locally, and acts like a real partner instead of fancy autocomplete.
After Testing Every AI Coder Roo Won
After 30 years building software and testing every AI coding assistant, I found one that actually works: Roo Code. It thinks in modes, runs locally, understands full codebases.
Can AI Really Feel Your Pain?
AI can understand your emotions and respond appropriately, but it’s not actually feeling anything – just pattern-matching from millions of examples. This matters more than you think.
Why Your Expensive AI Tools Sit Unused
Smart teams buy expensive AI tools that end up collecting dust. The problem isn’t the technology – it’s that nobody wants to fight with it. Here’s how to build AI workflows people actually use.
Why Emotional Intelligence Beats Coding For AI Teams
Building AI agent teams isn’t about coding – it’s about managing dynamics. The same emotional intelligence that makes you good with people makes you exceptional at orchestrating agents through “vibe coding.”
5 Skills To Master AI Coding Teammates
After 30 years of coding, I learned AI works best when you treat it like a junior developer. Here are 5 skills that changed how I work with AI teammates.
Choosing The Right LLM Changes Everything
After decades of coding and building AI solutions, I learned that picking the right LLM isn’t about finding “the best one” – it’s about matching each tool to the right job and knowing how to use them properly.
How To Slow Down Time Using Your Mind
You can actually change how you experience time – not by doing more, but by slowing down inside through presence and cognitive empathy to make life feel less chaotic.
How Empathy Slows Down Time And Stops Racing
Ever feel like time is slipping away? Discover how cognitive empathy doesn’t just help you understand others – it actually slows down time and makes you present.
Why Do AI Coding Assistants Mislead Developers?
You know that feeling when someone gives you directions with total confidence – and you end up at a dead end? That’s AI coding assistants in a nutshell.
When To Tweak Versus Restart AI Prompts
After years of AI prompting, I’ve figured out the key question: when do you keep tweaking versus starting over? Here’s my framework for knowing which approach works.
After 30 Years Coding I Cracked AI
After 30 years of coding, I learned the secret to getting useful work from AI: break problems into small chunks instead of dumping everything into one prompt.
Why Does Your AI Give Terrible Answers?
Your AI gives mediocre answers because you’re asking it to solve complex problems all at once. Break tasks into smaller chunks instead – like building a web scraper, then analyzing data, then generating a report separately. Each piece gets the model’s full attention and drastically improves quality.
Why Leaders Miss AI’s 3x Efficiency Gains
Most leaders think AI is just chatbots, but they’re missing 3x efficiency gains. After 30 years building AI workflows, I’ve learned the best systems understand people, not just data.
Break AI Tasks Into Chunks For Better Results
Breaking complex AI tasks into smaller chunks gets way better results than asking it to solve everything at once. Here’s my 30-year coding process for decomposition prompting.
My Journey From Perfectionist To Self Compassionate Person
Published 2025-11-08 07-03 Summary The story # Can AI Really Hear What We Feel? I’ve been thinking about something that fascinates me: AI’s ability to listen empathetically. Not just process words, but seemingly *understand* what we’re feeling. The...
When To Iterate Versus Start Fresh Coding
After 30+ years in code and 8 years in AI, here’s the difference between getting stuck and getting results: knowing when to iterate vs when to start fresh.
Why Forced Positivity Destroys Team Trust
I learned that forcing positivity actually pushes people away and makes problems worse. When we dismiss struggles with “stay positive,” trust breaks down and real issues get buried.
Why AI Projects Fail Despite Perfect Technology
I spent 30 years watching companies waste money on AI tools that employees hate. The failures aren’t technical – they ignore how humans actually work and think.
Why Perfect AI Code Still Feels Wrong
AI code looks perfect but feels wrong? After 30 years coding, I’ve learned the most valuable skill isn’t getting AI to write code – it’s knowing when to ignore it.
AI Prompts: When To Iterate Versus Restart
30+ years of coding taught me this about AI prompts: it’s not about finding the “perfect” prompt, it’s knowing when to iterate vs start over completely.
Why Most People Fail At AI Prompting
Most people prompt AI once and hope for the best. The real skill is knowing when to refine versus when to scrap everything and start over.
Stop Perfecting Prompts Start Breaking Them Apart
After 30 years coding and 8 years in AI, I learned the key skill isn’t perfect prompts – it’s knowing when to keep tweaking vs starting fresh. Break prompts into pieces.
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